How to look effortlessly S.T.Y.L.I.S.H

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   Choose clothes that flatter you: they should fit, and be neat and clean with a crisp appearance. Ask a friend or a sales' assistant if you're not sure that an outfit suits you.
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   Always have a few outfits prepared in advance, that way you won't have to spend lots of time riffling through your closet for certain events.
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   Choose your clothes in advance and try them out before the day when you want to wear them.
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   Choose what you like. If you enjoy dressing preppy, a polo or two are a must. Enjoy what you wear; clothing should be fun.
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   Keep up with the latest trends, so that you know what's current and what isn't. Check fashion magazines and put your own twist on things!
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   Add a couple of accessories - for example, a watch, necklace, ribbon or belt.
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   Know that good quality shoes are a must. Wear something that matches your personal style as well as the outfit you are wearing.
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   Don't go over the top (for example, don't wear all leopard print).
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   Try not to look fake; don't wear something if it's not you.
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    Be daring and unique! if you like leopard print, maybe go for a leopard print headband. Try interesting combinations, like a dress with jeans or shorts and tights. Don't be afraid to experiment.
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    Go for variety. For example, if you like pink, try different shades, be daring in bubblegum pink; there's dusty pink, baby pink, hot pink, etc.
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    Buy more than one pair of jeans; a dressy pair, a casual pair, an 'outdoors' and an 'at home' pair. Jeans are lifesavers, especially on those days that you can't find anything to wear. Try jeans with any top, a cute pair of shoes, maybe a belt, and off you go!
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    Mix 'n' match from previous seasons.
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    Black pants and denim are compulsory!
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    Check thrift stores and discount outlets, style shouldn't be expensive.
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    Make sure you have Outfits: that means clothes that go well with each other.
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    Sometimes its better to go for quality than quantity. Better to have one outfit with really great quality than two outfits which fall apart after a couple washings.
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    Don't worry about what people around you consider as "stylish," just dress how you want to dress and create a style of your own.
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    Don't wear make-up that is too dark for your skin tone.
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    Nail polish does not have to match your outfits at all. It is an area to style by itself.
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    If you wear an outfit that you consider dressy or extra stylish, fix your hair in a way that is as unique as the outfit itself.
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    Don't over do, but don't under do also. If it's your style, go for it! Everyone has their own style. Make up usually goes well with the outfit but don't apply too much, or you will look like a doll.
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    Don't show too much skin (like a lot of cleavage or back). If you do too much, people will think your a slut, whore, etc.
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    Don't go to the stores where most people go to. It sometimes makes people look the same. Go to different stores, even the thrift store if needed.
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    BE YOURSELF!

How to Get over a breakup if you are still the one loving?

Sometimes relationships have to come to an end. You may still love the person very much and it can be very hard to get through each day. This post is aimed at helping you ease the pain and move on, so that you can live a happier life.

1. The first step in working on moving on is getting rid of anything that will trigger memories. This can be VERY hard. If you find that you cannot throw away these items, put them into a box and take them to a friend to hold for you until you are ready to do something with them. Items to remove are not limited to: photos, letters, trinkets they bought for you or with you, movies you watched together and clothes they gave you. If you have songs that remind you of them, delete them from your music library.

2. Step2

   Delete them from your address book, and/or cell phone. You shouldn't look at their number daily, and you really shouldn't use it.

3. Step3

   Cut ties with mutual friends. This is hard to do, but it is almost always necessary. If you keep the mutual friends, you will be faced with things that remind you of him/her all the time. It can cause a lot more heartache and you are likely to have a longer healing time because of it.

4. Step4

   If you have photos of them on your cell phone, myspace, or facebook... DELETE THEM! If you don't want to permanently delete them, save the photos to a disc, then delete them from the phone and internet sites. PUT THE DISC AWAY.. at a friend's house or somewhere that you wont see it constantly.

5. Step5

   When you hear a song on the radio that reminds you of them, turn the station immediately and think of something else. This takes a lot of thought control but is very important.

6. Step6

   Avoid their phone calls or tell them not to call you anymore. If you really want to get over them, letting them play with your mind will not help you. It is really hard to ignore their calls or emails, and takes a LOT of willpower. The person you care about so much is exactly who you want to hear from.. so when they call, you want to answer it. Just don't do it.

7. Step7

   If you know anyone else going through a similar situation, befriend them and help each other. They might understand you more than other people will.

8. Step8

   Get a lot of sleep and exercise. There is never a bad time to get healthy!

Mens Fashion - Loft Style Living

Today will be the first insert for mens fashion and I will be focussing on Loft Style, for the trendy up and coming :)

Denim:

William Rast Jeans

Belt:

"Z" Buckle belt at yesstyle.com

Shirt:

Hackett Diamond Polo Shirt

Shoes:

Adidas Y-3 by Yohji Yamamoto

Sunnies:

Fossil Aviator Sunglasses

Advice for men: Guys with this outfit, staying in will not do it justice :) Have Fun!!

Outfit of the day

• Today is sunday and a time to relax, so lets do the same for our wardrobe choice :)

Jacket:

Adidas

Jeans:

Bullhead Jeans - Perfect Skinny fit. Super slim all over.

Watch:

Zooka Zub Zot 38m

Bag:

Vans Metallic Tote

Shoes:

Underground Station: Womens Adidas Decade Hi - Purple

Enjoy this trend and use it to relax. Have a great day everyone!!

How do you know if he loves you?

Have you ever doubted in love? I have. And if you did, below are some tips to know if he really really loves you the way he says he does:

• A very obvious one when he takes interests in your matters like work schedule, it means he is really concerned with you and loves you.
  
  
• Whenever a guy keeps a track on your habits, remembers whatever you do and say simply indicates his love for you.
  
  
• When a guy wants to spend more time with you, dates out with you at places of your choice and share the your favorite pastimes then he is madly in love with you.
  
  
• If he gives more importance to his friends even if you are sick or in need of him shows his lack of interest in you.
  
  
• Changing of topic when you discuss about your future with him is not a good sign of a healthy relationship with your love.
  
  
• If he doesn't want to spend time with you or don't ever want to go out with you in public and never introduces you to his friends mean he does not love you.
  
  
• When he calls you or message you just to chitchat with you means he deeply loves you and was finding any reason to talk to you.
  
  
• If he is really concerned about you and loves you then he would always take out time from his busy schedule.
  
  
• When he keeps looking you when you are around and suddenly takes off his eyes when you look at him shows he's in love with you.
  
  
• When he praises about you to his friends, family and others means he truly loves you.
  
  
• His every action will make you believe he loves you.
  
  
• If he changes his plans or cancels them last minute then he is surely avoiding you.
  
  
• If he is trying to be friendly with you and tries to make an effort to know more about you shows signs of love for you.
  
  
• You can make out from a person's eyes. The person in love with you has special shine in his eyes when he's talking to you.